Although it’s perfectly normal to want to spice up your sex life, learning a few sex games can help boost the spark.
It’s not always easy to maintain that spark in your relationship, especially if it’s been a while. Sometimes, it’s hard to keep the sexual passion going, and it’s not always the fault of either of you. But, by learning a few sex games, you can both reignite the spark and make your relationship feel like it’s starting to get back to normal.
Although sex isn’t considered the most important aspect of any relationship, it can still be a healthy and vital part of it. Learning how to play foreplay games can help improve the quality of your relationship.
Why does sex sometimes become repetitive or even boring?
Sometimes, life can get in the way of sex. Aside from financial issues, illness, and stress, other factors such as the COVID-19 pandemic can also affect the quality of sex in a relationship.
Medical conditions may also affect an individual’s sexual drive. If you think that this issue could be affecting your quality of life, it’s important to consult a doctor.
Another common reason why sex sometimes becomes boring is that you have stopped being creative.
During the honeymoon period, everything is exciting, and you’re eager to get back to bed. However, as time goes by, it’s not possible to maintain the same level of excitement. Every relationship requires work, and even the most passionate ones need to be worked on.
If you’re hoping to reignite the excitement in your relationship, then learning how to play sex games can be a great first step.
Why is foreplay so important
One of the main reasons why women typically don’t want sex as much is due to a lack of foreplay. For women, foreplay is vital, as it can help them reach orgasm. Without it, they have a slimmer chance of achieving this.
Most men don’t understand why foreplay is so important to a healthy sexual life. It’s not just about pleasing your partner, but it’s also about making sure both of you are ready for sex.
Getting in the right mindset can help you prepare for sex. It’s also about detaching from the distractions and finding a connection with your partner before having sex.
For women, foreplay can also help them relax and start their pleasure, which can make them more likely to finish. Learning a few sex games and foreplay activities for couples can help you both improve the quality of your relationship.
Sex games for couples to try tonight!
One of the easiest ways to try new things in bed is by getting in a new position. But, if you want to spice up your relationship, then you have to open yourself up to trying new things. This can be done through sex games.
It’s also true that performing new sexual positions several times can be tiring and daunting. What with all those sore muscles, limp erections, and carpet burns?
Instead of focusing on penetration, try taking on a few fun activities that can make your sex life more interesting. Try to avoid worrying about the elephant in the room when sex starts to get boring.
Play a few games and see how your libidos will explode. Check out our selection of sex games and foregames for couples to have fun and boost the excitement in your bedroom.
- You can watch an explicit movie and indulge in the sexual acts performed by the characters.
- Play Marco Polo completely naked in your own home.
- In bed, take a vow to never talk, touch, or kiss the other person’s private parts. Then, see who can manage to break the rules first.
- You can try to make your partner horny in public. You can try bending over so that he can see your nipples and sneaking kisses whenever no one is looking.
- Play an adult variation of spin the bottle placing various objects in a circle, such as chocolate sauce, whipped cream, or sex toys. Spin the bottle and use that item on your partner.
- Pick a random TV channel and watch a show. Then, pretend to be the couple that stars in the show.
- At the start of the year, create a list of all the sexy things that you want to do with your partner. Put all of the items in a glass jar and every week, draw one item out and promise to do it.
- You can buy an adult board game, and following the directions will result in you doing some rather dirty things.
- Play strip Poker, or strip Uno.
- Play a game where you pretend you’are in a room with other individuals. The goal is to remain quiet, while your partner aims to make you moan.
- Together, watch a movie. Try to turn your partner on while keeping your eyes focused on the screen.
- Pick a video game that both of you are passionate about and challenge your partner to a game of their choosing. The winner will then have to choose the actions that the loser should take.
- For a bet, try to predict which of you is the most experienced with regard to having sex. You can do this with a game known as “Never Have I Ever.”
- You can set a timer and try to have both of you orgasm before the session ends.
- The “what’s in my mouth” challenge is similar to the one that you saw on YouTube. Except, instead of food, you have to place various body parts inside the partner’s mouth to make them deduce what’s happening.
- Before leaving your house play Seven Minutes in Heaven. Set a timer for seven minutes and get as much action and pleasure as you can before you have to walk out the door.
- You can channel your inner child and engage in hide-and-seek. If he finds you, he will have to fuck you.
- You can play a dirty guessing game using a long-distance vibrating device while your partner is out of town. The correct answer will result in a zap.
- For this challenge, you have to kiss the other person without touching anything on their body. The first partner to violate the rules loses.
- You can play “two truths and a lie” with dirty questions.
- Find public places, such as a movie theater, a parking space, or a walking path at night, and engage in sexual acts without being detected.
- Visit a sex toy website and order whatever item you randomly want. You can use it the next time you have sex.
- You can blindfold your partner and ask him to guess whether you will touch him with either your mouth, hands, or feather.
- You can blindfold your partner and tell them to kiss or touch certain parts of your body. Then, guess which part it is.
- Your partner must be able to recite the lyrics of their favorite song as you perform oral sex. You will cease sucking as soon as they stop talking.
- Sign up for art classes that you’re passionate about, but also use your newfound skills to create sculptures, paintings, or drawings of your partner. Place them under their pillow or within their book to find.
- Play a game of puzzles with your partner completely naked.
- You can make a DIY twister board by using body paint.
- You and your partner can write down ten dares on the bottom of ten cups. You can fill the cups with alcohol or water, and set them up on the table. While you’re playing beer pong, your partner has to complete the dare every time you get the ball into the cup.
- Make your own sexy dares Jenga game. Write down a dare on each of the pieces. You have to act on it after taking it out of the tower.
- Pick a song that you think your partner will like to perform a strip tease to. You can choose anything from silly to sexy.
- You should continue kissing without taking off any clothes. Then, see which one of you initiates the sex act first.
- You can start a Webcam conversation with strangers and ask them what you should do to yout partner. You can either turn off the camera or leave it on, depending on your preference.
- One of the most challenging games that you can play is the one where you have to roll a dice to determine the amount of time that your partner should go down on you.
- You can play naughty charades by pretending to perform various sexual acts. If the partner you are with correctly guesses the act, then perform it.
- Play naked Twister.
- Pick a TV show that you want to watch with your partner every week, and make sure that the commercials are foreplay breaks. You have to spend every break doing something sexual.
- Arrange a challenge for yourself and your partner to see how many positions one can try before an orgasm.
- You can set a timer that will go off every minute or so, and have each partner take turns pleasuring or touching each other. This will ensure that you both have to switch whenever the timer goes off.
- You can challenge your partner to a new sexual position by purchasing a copy of the book “The Kama Sutra.” Each week, you and your partner will have to pick a new position to try.
- You can play porn roulette. Navigate to a website, select a random video, and watch it with your partner.
- Pick a book that contains erotica and have each partner read it out loud to each other. Whoever makes a first move loses.
- In this game, you have to think of a specific part of your body and your partner has to guess by kissing your body until they find the right answer.
- Make a challenge to have the longest duration of sex you’ve ever had.
- After finding a sexy story, send it to your lover and pretend to be serious actors while performing it.
- You can start a tradition of placing sexual bets on certain events, such as sports results or a trivia contest.
- Touch him while he’s touching you. Then, determine who can orgasm first by merely using your hands.
- Play truth or dare with questions that are naughty.
- You can then quiz him about your sexual preferences and kinks by asking him to answer questions correctly. He must then remove any item of clothing when he has failed to answer correctly.
- In this scenario, your partner must think of a certain part of their body and determine whether you are getting “hotter” or “colder” as you attempt to determine what it is with your mouth.
- Send each other a song that describes your desires for the other person. When you are together, perform the songs.
- A drinking game that’s sexy involves asking each other explicit questions. You have to take a shot every time you refuse to answer.
- Take turns massaging the other person with a scented oil while watching a movie, and see how aroused they will be by the end of it.
- You and your partner should commit to going undressed for an entire day.
- Play sex dice. A sex game that is both fun and challenging.
- You can leave each other voicemails while you read erotic books so that you can see who cracks first.
- You should order a sex toy for the other person. Keep it visible, but don’t let them use it until they can beat you in a specific challenge.
If you’re having a hard time getting enough sexual pleasure in bed, try these naughty sex games. These will only take a minute to get you aroused, and the high will keep the sparks flying.